Girls Are Too Be Respected

I came across this photo the other day while I was exploring the world wide web, and it kinda touched me. It shows how pure and innocent little kids are when they are in their pre-mature relationships. What if every relationship we were in was this pure and innocent? What if you or I just found that #1 and didn't go around trying to make it work with multiple girls. How awesome would it be to love just one girl. Respecting her purity, sharing your heart with only her, giving her the attention that she's due, and loving only her, no matter what unexpected issues or problems come up. It's hard in our generation to only settle for only 1. We feel as though one isnt enough b/c there may be someone and then another someone that makes us happy. Why do we break the heart's of these girls? Because boys are idiots, we are stupid. We don't know what we have sometimes until it's gone. That's the reason I'm writing this little blog. It's more for myself, because I know I haven't always respected or honored girls the way they should be honored and respected. I truly believe that our intentions must be pure and holy before getting into a relationship. We need to stop breaking these "little" girls hearts. We must set boundaries and guidelines to see to it that the relationship is moving down a healthy path. No more settling on the fact that "things will happen". See to it that there is never the opportunity for things to happen. Self-control is hard, but it's worth it. Allow God to be in every area of the relationship. Don't allow the world to direct the path of the relationship, but let it be directed by the hand of God.
There is a song by Keith Urban called "Stupid Boy" that sums up just how "stupid " us boys are. Below is a link to the song, so listen to it and enjoy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y0H4Vr6Czwo